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Praise for The Life of Kim and the Behavior of Men

“This is a rare find of a novel that reveals the truths of the lives of American soldiers stationed in Korea during the Vietnam War era with gritty realism, authenticity, and compassion. The interwoven love story between a young officer and a business girl struggling for a better life will haunt you for a long time.”

Wondra Chang, author of Sonju, Kirkus Starred Review historical novel


“Rod Davis has shown us what countless American war movies have not—the tragic results of G.I.’s stationed in a foreign land, where poor and desperate young women routinely become prey for the soldiers far from home. Nonfiction writers have documented this ugly truth before, but Davis does something more powerful by creating a set of unforgettable characters who give flesh and bone to the unintended consequences of the U.S. military presence in Korea 20 years after hostilities ended. The Life of Kim and the Behavior of Men illustrates all too well the social cost and darker side of empire.”

Sean Mitchell, award-winning writer for the Los Angeles Times and author of the upcoming memoir Irresistible Calling


“Rod Davis once more finds darkness in light and a harrowing path for the reader and his protagonist to navigate. This tale of U.S. troops in Korea during the Vietnam Era holds truths which, sadly, continued for decades. His narrator is no hero but concisely illuminates the short, brutish path he follows through a tour in post-war Korea so real you can smell the ondol charcoal in the alleyways and taste the kimchi. He, like us, the readers, can escape but the women and their accomplices are doomed. Though fictional, this is an important piece of history the Korean and US leadership would rather we all forget.”

Perry Jefferies, First Sergeant (retired), US Army. Once an Imjin Scout, now an artist and farmer


“Thoughtful, with dark, more-than-entertaining humor and a good, sad ending might best describe The Life of Kim and the Behavior of Men. Rod Davis calls on his own experience as a first lieutenant who found himself in South Korea instead of Vietnam, and he writes convincingly about the rocky relationship between LT Thomas Jefferson Hobbes and Kim, a young working girl who almost survives what can be called “after-market of wars.” This is a better read than Catch-22.”

Bill Helmer, former Playboy editor, author of St. Valentine’s Day Massacre


“It’s 1970 and LT Thomas Jefferson Hobbes is shipped out not to Vietnam as expected but to Korea, where GIs have way too much time on their hands. And more importantly for this compelling and unflinching portrait of Ugly Americanism, where temptations for grift are irresistible. Hobbes watches fretfully while a supply officer peddles pilfered PX goods and runs a drug ring, a mess sergeant sells steaks on the sly to local restaurants, and an army dentist treats local women for sexual favors. A chief attraction to the soldiers is bar girls rented by the hour or, better yet, set up in hootches for a pittance per month. Hobbes has a moral compass, but he’s also part of the crowd, and his agonized attachment to “Kim” is the twisted heart of his story. The tragic consequences that follow make this novel march at double-time to a very big ending.”

C.W. Smith is the author of Girl Flees Circus and other books. He is a former Marine and a Dedman Family Distinguished Professor Emeritus at SMU


“War is hell, but it’s also a trap as Rod Davis eloquently demonstrates in his novel The Life of Kim and the Behavior of Men. Davis’s narrator—LT Thomas Jefferson Hobbes—finds himself deployed to Korea, not Viet Nam as he had expected. Although the assignment may guarantee that Hobbes won’t witness mass slaughter (or be killed himself) he witnesses another kind of slow, methodical slaughter of people’s souls. The economic system that thrives around a war machine crushes and kills, and as Hobbes narrates his own story we can only hope that by telling it he can salvage himself and make some sense of the fate of the bar girl—Kim—whom he loves. He is presented with a true Hobbesian choice—the necessity of accepting one of two equally objectionable alternatives—and one must wonder how we ourselves would fare under those circumstances.”

Helen Thompson, author of Marfa Modern; Texas Made/Texas Modern; and Santa Fe Modern


“This novel moves quickly, and the dialogue helps keep the reader centered on the conflicts and events at hand. Yet, there are passages of deep reflection interspersed that help people see the boredom and rebellion that naturally spring up in institutions centered on hierarchy and public displays of obedience. Hobbes is a narrator who becomes equally intellectually engaging as he is challenging, as he constantly rightly critiques a system and then wrongly fails to transcend his own critique.”

Mike Hilbig, author of Judgment Day & Other White Lies